Honoring My Father’s Legacy Through Family Heirlooms

How do you carry on the legacy of a man who lists his order of priorities right on his gravestone: “DEVOTED TO GOD, HIS FAMILY, AND HIS COUNTRY”?

I was privileged to be raised in a household by a man who knew what was important in life. He has been reunited with his beloved mother for many years now, but if we let his memory die, we lose so many valuable life lessons.

I’ve created many projects from his uniform and will continue until every scrap is transformed into a family heirloom. I’ll share them all eventually, but for now, these are flowers added to a wedding bouquet of one of his grandchildren, made from the fabric and buttons of the last uniform he wore.

This Veteran’s Day, honor the veterans around you, and take a moment to let my favorite veteran influence your life just a little.

In March of 1967, my dad wrote a letter for all of us, his children—even those of us who hadn’t yet been born. It’s a glimpse into his heart, his values, and the love he held for his family and his country. As we remember him and honor his legacy, I’d like to share his words with you, so that a piece of him continues to inspire us all.

My Children,

Possibly I am becoming a sentimentalist as the years add a little more grey to my hair, but I feel compelled to put a few words down on paper in case I should not have the opportunity to again speak to you in person. Until this moment, your dad has never been one to show emotions although he feels them quite deeply.

I love your mother and each of you more than life itself. It is my strongest desire that each of you children grow up to be ladies and gentlemen of the highest caliber and it is the purpose of this letter to express some of my views on the subject. I do not profess that I have attained the goal myself, but in my own way I can rest with some satisfaction, knowing that I have at least given it a good try despite some weak moments.

First I must recognize that one gets from life only what one puts into it. There are many exceptions of course, but as American citizens we are blessed with the opportunity to succeed and find happiness in life if we properly apply ourselves and are deserving. One thing the Robertson Clan can claim, despite many faults is that there is not a lazy one among us. Good honest, hard work is good for the soul. Knowing that you have done your share, and if possible a little more, is a reward in itself. No matter how humble the task if the job needs to be done, contribute your task with a smile. My most fervent hope is that should I be called upon in the present conflict to contribute my life that I should be equal to the task and depart with a job well done.

Honesty and forthrightness have meant to me cardinal principles that must be abided by at all times under all conditions. Admit your mistakes and never take from another what is rightfully his. By this I do not mean that you should not accept what has been won in fair competition, but never take advantage of the innocent or exploit the weak. Play the game hard, but always by the rules.

Seek for responsibility and always be prepared to accept more, but know your capabilities and limitations. It is very easy to be a follower but most difficult to be a leader. Do not settle for the path of least resistance.

I am happy to say that each and every time I hear the “Star Spangled Banner”, my eyes moisten and chills run up my spine. I know that many have expressed their love of country far better than I could ever attempt, but believe me I know of none who mean it more. She has been mighty good to me. Anything that I can do in return will be a small repayment.

“Troops” it is a good life, use it wisely. Always know that dad is with you when trials and tribulations tempt or occasionally steer you from the path. You will make mistakes, we all do, but be man (or lady) enough to bounce back no matter how tough the going may get or how dark the future may seem.

You have the finest mother in the world - love and cherish her. Although I do not share her religious beliefs I respect them greatly. I do hope that she is right in that we shall all be together again. I would do anything to seal that possibility, but I can not profess that I believe all of the requirements that make one acceptable as a Mormon. The lord in his infinite wisdom I am sure understands.

Should you have occasion to read this letter – Know that I love you and have done my best to provide for your future.

Forever and Always,

“We” Dad

BE GOOD!